The Commuting Student Option
Although most people equate college life with living in an on-campus dorm, students and parents should not be too quick to rule out the possibility of commuting from home. Room and board costs of living on-campus can add an extra $8,000 to $10,000 a year in college costs, so it may make financial sense for some families to take a close look at local college options. Of course, there are costs involved with commuting too - transportation, gas, parking permits, food and utilities consumed by the student living at home - so the first step should be an evaluation of just how much savings can be expected. There are also other factors to weigh before making the decision about whether commuting is right for you.
Whether you're looking at a college down the street or a college on the other side of the country, the same rules to choosing a college apply: Focus on finding a good match for both your academic and social needs and desires. As you visit local colleges, ask the same questions you'd ask of any college, but also make sure to find out about how the school insures that commuting students are an integral part of campus life. Many colleges and universities have programs designed specifically to help commuters get the most out of college life. For example, Villanova University offers special learning communities aimed at connecting commuters with faculty and other commuting students. Duquesne University has set up a special "Commuter Affairs" office that provides counseling, social activities and other programs just for commuters. Duquesne's Commuter Assistant Program even connects commuting freshmen with a support network of commuting upperclassmen who serve as student advisors and help freshmen get involved with campus life. Some colleges, like the University of Pittsburgh at Bradford even offer special grants and scholarships for commuting students.
Beyond special programs for commuting students, be sure to ask about any restrictions about living on campus in the future if your plans change. Fairfield University in Connecticut, for instance, only lets students who start off as commuters but then decide to live on campus in subsequent years do so under "extenuating" circumstances. You should also ask pointed questions about the availability of financial aid and merit scholarships if you will be a commuting student at a primarily residential college. In some cases, schools may favor prospective on-campus students when awards are handed out.
If you do decide to commute, both students and parents may face unique issues. Parents may have to remind themselves to give their child new freedom, leading to unexpected conflict, according to a parent's guide for commuting students prepared by Cal State East Bay. Students will also have to put in a bit more effort to stay connected and take advantage of all aspects of campus life. However, students willing to make the extra effort can have a satisfying and fun college experience.