In three days, I'm leaving to take my daughter to college. What a difference a year makes. This time last year, my daughter was starting to write her college essays and still trying to figure out her final college list. Even though I'd worked with many other students as they went through the college admissions process, there was something very different about watching my own daughter approach college applications. No matter how calm and cool I advised other parents to stay, it was impossible for me to take my own advice 100% of the time.
Fast forward a year and here we are packing for college. She'll be attending a wonderful small liberal arts college in the Midwest that fits her like a glove. The fears and anxiety we both felt this time last year seem pretty minor at this point. My daughter is excited, happy, and anxious to get started on her new life. Although I've shed a few tears at the thought of her leaving home, I'm also excited and happy for her and very proud of how far she's come to reach this point. If you or your child is standing on the edge of the college admissions process, try to keep our experience in mind: Yes, the coming year will be challenging and, at times, nerve-wracking. But this time next year, you may be wondering what all of the fuss was all about as you stand, suitcase in hand, ready for the next part of the journey.
Because I won't be posting this week, I thought I'd leave my readers a list of recommendations for ten books that should be on every college hunter's bookshelf. Happy hunting and I'll be back on August 21st!
1.
College Match by Steven Antonoff is the place every college hunter should start their college search. Antonoff leads students through the process of figuring out what they need and want from a college, and explains some of the myths of college admissions and college attendance.
2. Want to know which schools have the biggest Greek scene? A golf team? A strong program in English?
The College Finder, also by Steven Antonoff, is a good place to turn. You won't find much detail here - this book is basically a book of lists, but it is an invaluable way to track down specific characteristics you want or need in a college.
3.
Rugg's Recommendations on the Colleges is another useful book of lists. Looking for the colleges that have strong programs in a particular major? Rugg's lets you find them quickly and easily. One particularly nice thing about Rugg's is that it doesn't just focus on the most selective schools, so it is a good place to get ideas for matches and safeties as well as reach schools that have good programs in your major.
4. After you've pinpointed some names, my favorite guidebook for initial college research is
the Fiske Guide to Colleges. I like Fiske because its profiles tend to be more unbiased and based on solid factual research than other similar guidebooks.
5. Even if you're sure that a research university is the only school for you, I recommend you still read through
Colleges that Change Lives by Loren Pope. This book is subtitled "40 Schools that Will Change the Way You Think About Colleges" and even if none of the 40 schools are right for you, you will get a clearer idea of some good questions to ask of every school on your list.
6. Get up to speed on important college financial matters with
the College Board's College Costs and Financial Aid early in your college search, and you'll be ahead of the game.
7. There are many college admissions "how to" books on the market, but I am partial to Richard Montauk's
How To Get Into the Top Colleges. Montauk explains all you need to know about positioning yourself to best advantage on college applications, and, in spite of the book's name, it is useful to have on hand even if you're not applying to a "top" college.
8.
Admission Matters by Sally Springer and Marion Franck is another straight-forward how to guide that explains the basics of finding the right college, preparing an effective application, and making your final choice. Like Montauk's book, I like this one because it doesn't pretend that there are hidden secrets out there that will get you into any college. It stresses that the key to getting into a great college comes back to basics: knowing yourself, knowing the colleges you're applying to, and making sure your applications make the connection between the two.
9. I'm not a big fan of college essay books that contain nothing but examples of other people's essays. An effective essay is about you, and reading other people's essays does little to help you get the essential you on paper. That's why I recommend the unfortunately titled
College Admissions Essays for Dummies. Here's one book that doesn't contain a single "real" essay, but it does walk you through every step of the process in a simple, easy to undertstand way, and it also provides plenty of brainstorming exercises to help you get started.
10.
The Gatekeepers, by Jacques Steinberg, is a classic. Steinberg sat in on admissions meetings at Wesleyan University for a year and recorded what goes on behind the scenes in this book. While the focus is on elite college admissions, this book is a worthy read for all college hunters because it helps you to understand that there are always going to be parts of the admissions process that you can't control.
These are just ten of my personal favorites. If you have a book on college admissions or the college search that you've found particularly useful, please feel free to share it by posting a comment here.