Spring break is rapidly approaching and that can only mean one thing: Thousands of families will be heading out on campus visit tours across the nation.
If you're a parent putting together the intinerary for your child's college visit, a successful college tour is all about the details. While you may be tempted to cram in as many visits as possible, it's usually best to set realistic expectations and not try to see the entire Ivy League in one day. Most students find campus visits - especially those first ones - tiring and, sometimes, a bit overwhelming. And, more than one student has complained about spending their entire break doing nothing but being schlepped from school to school by over-eager parents. Plus, it's important to allow time after each visit to digest what you've seen and heard before moving on to the next admissions tour. So, try to take a less-is-more approach rather than the 30-colleges-in-a week-approach. Colleges aren't going anywhere, and, if absolutely necessary, you can always visit the ones that you don't fit in on this trip at a later date.
My advice, therefore, is to aim for no more than two campus visits each day. One may be even better, depending on distance and the size of the campuses involved. Allow at least two hours for each school if you're only planning to take the formal tour, have lunch in the cafeteria, and spend some time wandering around campus and the surrounding area on your own. If your child will be meeting with an admissions officer or faculty member, sitting in on a class, or attending a more formal admissions presentation, you may find a single visit will use up most of a day.
Don't forget that finding your way from campus to campus in unfamiliar territory will also probably take longer than you expect, and that getting lost is par for the course. So, don't assume that you'll be able to drive the 60 miles between Lehigh and Haverford in the same amount of time it would take you to traverse a similar distance on your home turf.
Build in down time for you and your child that has nothing at all to do with college. Do something you both enjoy that doesn't involve trodding across another scenic campus, and plan to arrive at your hotel each night early enough to enjoy a nice dinner and rest up for the next day. Don't be surprised if at some point during the trip your child seems to loose interest in looking at colleges, or even becomes downright grumpy when you suggest another stop at another college bookstore for another college tee-shirt to add to the growing collection in the back seat. Rather than pushing forward, re-evaluate if any schools can be dropped from the tour. In short, flexibilty is key.
Finally, don't think of this initial college tour as a hunt for the "perfect" college. This isn't a process that can be sewn up that easily, and there are many miles still to go before your child looks at you and says "I've decided to go here."
A few useful tools for the trip:
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Professor Pathfinder's U.S. College and University Map
is just that: a map of the entire U.S. showing approximately 1200 four year colleges and universities. It can be an invaluable planning tool, and also comes in handy for mapping your route between College A and College B.
- The distance function on
the ACT college search database. It allows you to enter a zip code or town name and then pull up a list of all colleges within a certain distance (i.e., 50 miles, 100 miles). If you already have one school on your "must see" list and want to know which other schools are nearby, this can be a useful way to find out.
- College admissions offices and the visit section of college admissions website can be terrific sources of information about travel times between colleges, local restaurants and hotels, and even fun things to do in the local area. Don't be shy about asking them for advice!
- A few city tourism boards and college consortiums publish college visit guides and websites specific to the area that are chock full of maps, hotel suggestions, and sight-seeing ideas. If you're heading to the greater Philadelphia area, check out
OneBigCampus.com, to Baltimore,
Baltimore Collegetown, and to Boston,
Bostonvisit.com. Even if you can't find such a college guide for the areas you'll be visiting, use google to track down the local visitor's and convention bureau for similar information.
- Finally, if the thought of spending a week locked in a car with a grumpy teen makes you want to run in the opposite direction, there are tour companies that specialize in taking groups of teens on campus tours. Two examples are
Campus Visits and
U-toursHappy touring!